Actually you can be a superstar, just like John
Travolta, Michael Cage, Johnny Depp or Brad Pitt, even if you’re below-average.
The biggest reasons why men fail to attract
beautiful women are FEAR, lack of self-confidence, low self-esteem, and low
self-worth. Women are programmed to detect these weaknesses in a man from a
mile away. And you can be sure they will capitalize on these weaknesses whenever
an opportunity presents itself. Bad looks are not necessarily the culprit.
Looks contribute to only 10% of a man’s profile.
It’s quite possible to attract any woman. It’s not
rocket science. However, to conquer women, there are certain psychological
triggers you must understand…
One
thing you need to understand: You can’t “convince” a woman to FEEL ATTRACTION
for you…
The first thing you need to understand is how nature,
and the world in general, works. The universe is actually a giant magnetic
field. This magnetic field helps to hold things together, bind things together,
etc. It causes things to pull at each other, and other things to push at each
other, and so on…
The same universal forces also work here on earth in
all matter and living organisms, including animals, birds, reptiles and
insects.
Believe me, women just as men, are also dying to
attract members of the opposite sex; especially interesting men.
We are taught in school that opposite magnetic poles attract each other. Positive attracts negative and negative attracts positive. This is what happens all the time between men and women. Men and Women are members of opposite magnetic poles. That’s why men and women differ on many different issues of life.
We are taught in school that opposite magnetic poles attract each other. Positive attracts negative and negative attracts positive. This is what happens all the time between men and women. Men and Women are members of opposite magnetic poles. That’s why men and women differ on many different issues of life.
A seemingly handsome man could be chasing a certain
beautiful woman for a date. However, every time he tries to get a date, the
woman just keeps turning him down. At this point, most men get frustrated and
just give up. On the other hand, it’s quite common to see a beautiful woman
immediately get attracted to a seemingly “not-so-good-looking” guy. Such are
the realities of life.
Ever wondered why this happens? This is because
women are created very differently from men.
Differences
Between Men And Women
This might come as a shock to many men but the fact
is that women are very different from men.
Men are generally attracted to women by their looks.
Women are not necessarily attracted by the looks in a man but by a man who
makes them “feel a certain way”. This is the fantasy of every woman since
childhood. If you understand this then you will have in your hands, one of the
most powerful keys to attracting women.
There are six basic differences between men and
women. In fact there are more, but these six are the most fundamental
differences if you need to understand how to attract women. If you understand
these things you can attract any woman you want. These six differences are also
like electrical switches or magnetic poles.
If you switch on the appropriate switch at the right
time, you will automatically attract the woman you want:
- Men use the left brain; women use the right brain
- Men are aroused by sex; women are aroused by love
- Men are aroused by fantasy; women are aroused by excitement
- Men are aroused by physical strength; women are aroused by drama
- Men are aroused by physical appearance; women are aroused by intelligence
- Men are aroused by stress; women are aroused by emotions
It’s important to understand that unlike men, women are not necessarily attracted by the good looks of men, unless the men can stimulate them in ways they like as mentioned above.
The Left Brain vs Right Brain
Women use the right brain. Men use the left brain. Yes, I know this is difficult to comprehend unless I give you an illustration.
Women use the right brain. Men use the left brain. Yes, I know this is difficult to comprehend unless I give you an illustration.
Men usually put the left foot forward whenever they
alight from a moving vehicle (bus, train, car etc.) or a lift. On the contrary,
women usually put the right foot forward whenever they alight from a vehicle
and on every other occasion, whether they’re climbing stairs or alighting from
a lift.
These two different perspectives of thinking
determine the different behavior patterns between men and women.
Sex
vs Love
Actually women look at sex quite differently. Women
are not necessarily aroused by sex. Women are aroused by love. If you can express
genuine love towards a woman, she will eventually give you what you want.
This is because unlike men, who are just stimulated by
fantasy through their mind, women are stimulated emotionally through the heart.
Touch a woman’s heart and you touch her emotions. Touch a woman’s emotions and
she’ll allow you to touch her anywhere…
In fact, if all you’re interested in is sex, women can
see you from a mile away. That’s why they play hard to get. They want to figure
you out first before they can trust you enough to have a relationship with you.
Please understand that women have more to lose in any relationship than men.
Men are aroused by sex. Women are aroused by love,
and a lasting relationship. Women can be very skeptical. They are programmed to
believe that the moment they yield to your sexual demands, you’re more than
likely to “dump” them. Express genuine love to a woman and she’ll be all yours.
That’s why you need a lot of patience, especially
with a woman you just met and really want. In fact as a general rule, never
discuss sex with a woman you just met, if you feel really attracted to her. On
the contrary, if a woman really wants you badly, she will fall head-over-heels
for you. If this happens to you be careful. She may be doing this just to make
another woman jealous.
As another general rule, never go out with another
woman just to make your desired woman jealous.
Men do not regard love as seriously as women do.
Most men think that women will just understand and appreciate it when you buy them an expensive gift, or when you kiss them or make love to them. That’s not the case. Women expect you to go a step further and actually speak the magic words, “I love you”.
Men do not regard love as seriously as women do.
Most men think that women will just understand and appreciate it when you buy them an expensive gift, or when you kiss them or make love to them. That’s not the case. Women expect you to go a step further and actually speak the magic words, “I love you”.
The more you speak these words, the more confident
she becomes, therefore the more she loves you back. For most men, this may
sound stupid, but when you tell a woman you love her, several things happen:
- It makes her feel good
- It makes her feel special
- It makes her feel she has conquered you
- It makes her very proud of herself
- She imagines that other women will die of jealousy
- It justifies to herself and to her friends that she made the right choice
- It’s like music in her ears.
Fantasy
vs Excitement
Fantasy doesn’t arouse women in the same sense it
arouses men. A man’s sense of fantasy is a beautiful woman with a certain
physical appearance. A woman’s sense of fantasy is a handsome man who will make
her “feel a certain way”.
Excitement and fun arouses most women. And if you
can provide it to them, then you’re the man they will go for.
You don’t even need to have a lot of money to win
women. A woman can finance any excitement she wants once she discovers that
you’re an exciting man.
Women love fun, joke and stories. Tell her exciting
stories without over-exaggerating. Take her to exciting places where she will
enjoy. Suggest places where she has never been. Create adventure. Take her to
the movies. Women love good food. Take her for lunch. Even a bar of chocolate
turns a woman on. Don’t wear heavy cologne, which may interfere with your
lymphatic system. Dress well and groom yourself. Always be gentle, caring and
affectionate.
As a general rule don’t ask a woman for a date the
first time. Create an occasion for a date first – and don’t blow it. It must be
preceded by a series of other gestures and activities. Don’t criticize or
differ with a woman for no apparent reason.
Women will know you like them the first time you
meet. In fact, women can see you even without looking at you directly. And
they’re very good at stealing a glance when you’re not suspecting.
Physical Strength vs Drama
Physical Strength vs Drama
Men tend to get a positive chemical boost from
conflict and competition, while in women, conflict is more likely to elicit
negative chemical reactions, creating stress, fear and sadness.
Men love activities that enhance adrenaline, like
sports, travelling and adventure. Women love drama. Drama accomplishes a lot of
things at once. Drama gets attention and sends emotions through the body. Emotions
are highly addictive chemicals.
Drama creates an environment for fun, excitement,
and enjoyment. Drama appears to be more realistic than mere fantasy and sends
more emotional chemicals to the brain in women than in men. It is interesting
and prevents boredom. Drama also creates a sense of self-righteousness and gives
life meaning… and so on.
There are a lot of good reasons for drama. But most
men can’t understand this because drama fulfills needs that most men don’t
have.
Physical
Appearance vs Intelligence
Men are easily attracted by the physical appearance
of a woman (e.g. hips, legs, butt, cleavage, etc.). Women are not necessary
attracted by the physical appearance of a man. Women’s sense of physical beauty
is very different from men.
When I was a young boy, I was very shy. But whenever
I sat near girls, they would mill all around me for some reason.
At the time, I didn’t understand why. I knew I was
not the most handsome boy in class, although I knew I was good at math. Later,
I realized that girls were not actually attracted to me because of my looks,
but by my ability to solve complex mathematical formulas. This made me very
popular at school.
This phenomenon continued until my teenage and adulthood.
For example, I would sometimes notice that at the bus stop, on my way to work,
most of my neighbors were actually women who had somehow unconsciously drifted around
me. Later, I came to learn that women can be attracted by male pheromones - odorless
chemical compounds emitted not only by humans, but also by animals.
Pheromones are all part of nature's mating game,
intended to create sexual attraction on a purely physical level. Female animals
are more sensitive to pheromones than their male counterparts, and can
unconsciously detect male pheromones from a short distance. Men with high
testosterone levels emit more pheromones, which not only arouse women sexually,
but also gives them a sense of protection.
I was surprised to read that Bill Gates, though not
particularly handsome, also went through a similar experience as a young boy while
attending computer classes at Lakeside School because of his mathematical
genius, as he writes in his bestselling book, “The Road Ahead”.
Women like to be associated with powerful, intelligent
men. This gives them a sense of “emotional” edge of jealousy over their peers.
This has something to do with female hormones, known as estrogens, which control the development, maintenance and
characteristics of the female body. Estrogens
also direct women’s psychology, behavior and emotions with regard to
reproduction.
For example, in some cultures women really believe
that they have a higher chance of giving birth to an intelligent child (preferably
a boy), if they mate with an intelligent man, which they believe, will make
them more appreciated by their husbands and society in general, while they make
their peers die with jealousy. (This is a bit controversial, therefore don’t
take it seriously).
This is not always the case, but it happens. This
doesn’t mean that all of us must be mathematical geniuses to attract beautiful women.
However, you have a big advantage if you can demonstrate some kind of
intelligence. This could be any physical or intellectual intelligence (e.g.
sports, video game, gambling, comedy, art, science, business, acrobatics, dancing,
acting, poetry, magic tricks, computer wizardry, etc.).
On the other hand the woman you’re after should also
be genuinely interested in what you know.
One big secret is that you should first find out
what your woman is interested in, what she likes, or what she enjoys and so
on...
You must demonstrate that you’re really good at
something if you want to attract beautiful women. If you’re not good at
anything, learn something.
Stress
vs Emotions
Men get an extra sexual kick when stress levels are
high. In fact, they will bond better with a female in a stressful or aggressive
environment.
By contrast, a female is more likely to reject a
male's advances in a stressful or aggressive environment. Cortisol blocks the
reception of oxytocin in female brains, shutting down a woman's desire for
physical touch. And if a woman does have sex under stress, she won’t be able to
reach orgasm while her amygdala is active, which is the centre for
anxiety, aggression and fear. (The female orgasm actually increases her
chances of pregnancy).
Women are emotional wrecks. If you know how to pull
emotional triggers, then women will be falling head-over-heels for you. This is
because you stimulate them in a way they like.
One emotion that really attracts women is jealousy.
Women are jealous of each other, no matter how powerful or beautiful they know
they are. Women’s emotions can be stimulated by giving gifts and by showing
affection and care.
Gifts have a different meaning to women than they do
to men. Gifts trigger emotional feelings if given with affection and love. Remember,
women are aroused by the man who “makes them feel a certain way”.
For example, a gift indicates to a woman how much
you love and care for her. This sends an emotional trigger to other women, which
makes them jealous. Don’t give gifts to a woman the first time, but when you
do, make sure the gift is not common. This could be anything rare like jewels,
perfume, wristwatch, bracelet, necklace, a dress, a ring, earrings, shoes or a
car.
Next thing you know, she’ll be leaning forward to be
kissed by you…
Conclusion
Succeeding with
women is not “magic”.
Attracting beautiful women is actually an art you can
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women is just the beginning of a journey towards this mastery.
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